She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc. That's just too high a price to pay. There is no way this will work out. I wish you the best of luck. We agree on honesty and kindness, it doesn't matter what inspires us to pursue that. Best of luck, and God bless. I have spent my life alone waiting for things to get better. But she understands that I am committed to the Gospel, and will never leave it either.
I cherish my MD husband and Ph. How will your spouse feel about that in 20 years. But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults. That is the shit storm on the road ahead of you. Next year we are getting married but I already see a tough life ahead of me. It is very difficult being a Doctors wife. I've been searching around for advice, and this blog page is probably the most informative on the topic of dating a doctor as I've been able to find anywhere. He will have to wait outside if his children marry in the temple.
I, too, am the wife of a doctor dermatology resident. The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming. He's now in his 3rd year of a 4 year residency program and is hoping to do a 2 year fellowship next. I asked, he refused. Mormon decried it was all a lie, an anti mormon lie. It's a tricky business, but oh so worth it for the one you love. But I don't want to put any more demands on his time, which is why I thought maybe asking for quick phone call on his drive home might help. And can you talk about hard things together. He went out and purchased a promise ring, but was holding off on giving it to me.
The thing is, even though no one else trusted my decision, I prayed about it daily for our entire relationship. There are so many potential problems they would fill a book. At the end of the second date I knew I needed him in my life. Yeah man, don't doubt someone who was a missionary will try to convert you. You join the LDS Church. Interreligious marriages are not a new thing. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. This has led to more arguments than ever before and I feel so alone This is all very helpful. Make them feel special. I wish you the best.