If only our love lives were as simple as a math equation. What works for you and your S. These will percent help you gauge long-term compatibility. If your partner is great on paper, but you lack a sexual spark or chemistry, this can be important down the line. John Gottman, a v. If you get a promotion at work or even just win concert tickets, he can't resist telling everyone you hang out with before you even think to mention it.
1. He is Transparent
To you, he is virtually flawless. And who am I to argue? Your condition is universal. Thousands of songs have been written about unrequited love, and they all have the same unhappy ending. Because, to you, it beats the alternative: breaking up with him, feeling sad, and going back to the dating pool once again. Somehow, you would rather give your love to a man who has no intentions of marrying you …than to free yourself up to search for the man who WILL one day marry you. You undoubtedly recognize it. You like the man who is more unavailable. You respect him more. And yet you never know where you stand with him.
You deserve to be pursued by a real man.
He expresses himself freely, talks about the future, and tells you how much you mean to him. Keep going. The guy you like can sit for hours and hours talking with you. He wants to know everything about you.
When he talks about the future, you're in it. Whether he's discussing your vacation six months from now or where he wants to be living in five years, you're the one he's going to go to Paris with or take a cooking class with or, I don't know, go shopping for jeans with. He likes being domestic with you.